Anger is A Secondary Emotion

Nur Eryna Maisarah and Mama,-Cameron 2010...

Alone at home, Nad already went back.
After went online with Encik Sayang, watched Keeping Up with The Kardashians.
Khloe was suggested to attend a class-Anger Management Class after hitting Scott.
Scott is his brother in law and Khloe strongly feels that Scott is taking away her sister, Kourtney.
Khloe and Kourtney are very close to each other, hence the anger developed in Khloe.

A tiny mistake of Scott led Khloe to hit him.
Eh, tak. Im not trying to tell the whole story to you. Haha.
The point is, I was attracted to the anger management class that was attended by Khloe.
The teacher asked Khloe to express her feelings to Scott and Khloe went:
" You're such an ass.."
The teacher told Khloe, that's not an expression of her feelings.
Then again, Khloe realised what she actually feels towards Scott:
"Scott, you're taking away my sister..and I miss my sister".
The teacher asked her to stop immediately..
"That's the exact feeling you need to express to Scott".

Khloe was speechless and she just cant wait to see Scott and her sister to apologize. (Ok, terharu di situ).
Although cerita tu ada some parts yang memang fake but Im just taking the good bits of it.



My second point is, it's not wrong to feel angry but how you express the anger that matters.
When I read John Gray's Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, I learnt how to express my anger and the art of arguing. (cewah, argue pun ade arts you).
But it works ok, for example:

When I tak puas hati pada Encik Sayang over certain things, I would say:
"Sayang, I tak suka you buat macam tu..."

When I feel jealous (bueks), I would go:
"Sayang, I rasa I jealous la.."

Haha, straight to the point and say what you actually feel first.
Then baru rasa lega.
Fortunately, Encik Sayang is someone yg a good listener.
Whenever I said "Sayang I jealous or I tak puas hati", he definitely would ask me back:
"Kenapa ni sayang..cuba cerita betul-betul.."
See, how nice kan? *love*

He believes everything boleh dibawa berbincang tanpa perlu marah-marah tak tentu pasal.

Please, if you are doubt of anything..Dont ever go and attack him by saying:
"Sayang, you ni penipu la..".
That's not healthy and in fact, you will 'shoot him with thunders' sebab for sure dia akan blur eh-apesal-tiba-tiba-kena label-penipu.

Ok, that's the simplest example I can give you.

However, undeniably most women memang susah control their emotions especially bila 'monthly best-friend' datang melawat.
Eh, tak paham ke? PMS la..:P
Masa tu, lagi la susah nak control kan..
But why not give it a go and see how..kan?
All the best! :D

Okla,

After this I nak masak ikan goreng rangup and sambal tumis Minang style.
Ta!

Actually, esok akan genap setahun. I love you more and more each day..:)